1. There’s a reason schools teach Shakespeare instead of John Green; you make your own life, it’s not written in the stars, waiting to start until you find that person with the perfect smile

2. People are a hell of a lot smart than you think. Shut your mouth, stop thinking you know everything, and listen.

3. Getting close and being vulnerable is scary as hell, But you know what else it is? Worth it.

4. Reason really is the doctor to love.

5. The moment you feel your happiness being dictated by another person, take a break from them.

6. Take a step back and look around, you have more friends than you think.

7. Growing up is going to happen and it’s going to be tough. Just stay close to those around you, you’re all in it together.

8. If you’re still checking their Facebook/Instagram/tumblr, you’re never going to get over them.

9. Everything seems worse in the morning. Don’t fall for it, it’s deceiving.

10. No need to be so intense all the time. People get tired of swimming in the deep end, sometimes they need a break in the shallow part of the pool.

11. Stop avoiding everything. Get out of bed, get dressed, go to school, go to work. It sucks at first but it’s part of the healing process.

12. If the person makes you feel like shit and you still go back to them, it’s an abusive relationship.

13. Headphones are great, but listen to music aloud every once in a while. Sometimes you need to scream a song so everyone can hear you.

14. Boundaries are a must.

15. You can be a caring person, but you need to be happy with yourself before you try to make others happy.

16. Try and understand other’s intentions and situation before you get angry with them.

17. Tough love is necessary sometimes.

18. You can’t fix people no matter how hard you try. Get this engrained in your mind.

19. Surround yourself with people who will love and support you.

20. Loneliness is lethal and makes you have a distorted view of things.

21. No one hates you more than you hate yourself. Stop being your own enemy.

22. Someone can only hurt your feelings if you allow them to.

23. Getting your shit back in order is five times as hard as it is to mess it all up.

24. Listen to your parent’s advice.

25. Be open to anything and everything. Life isn’t fun when you’re a closed book.

26. Talking about your problems is great, but there comes a point when talking about it becomes dwelling on the past and it drains everyone around you. Know when you’ve hit this point.

27. A lot of people don’t like their shit showing. More people than you know are going through hard times.

28. Distract yourself.

29. Don’t be so easily swayed, a lot of claims out there are not true.

30. Some seasons of your life are harder than others. This too shall pass.

— 30 Things I Learned During the 30 Worst Days of my Life: November 2013 (via drmng)

this is so important.

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bunnywith:

deluxetoaster:

can we start a club for teenagers who were constantly complimented on their intelligence when they were younger and are now having trouble coping with the realization that they’re actually of average intellect at best

in elementary school i constantly scored as reading at a college level but then i got to college and suddenly everyone’s reading at college level.

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As I look around the world, I see scientists and rationalists like me – we’re always going around asking ourselves, what if I’m wrong? What if I’m wrong? You don’t see much asking of that question among the religions. They don’t seem to be very interested in asking themselves, what if we’re wrong? — Daniel Dennett (via whats-out-there)
godlessmen:

Christian Logic Source: Source and comments

godlessmen:

Christian Logic

Source: Source and comments

wanksclub:

i can’t be mad at any animal for more than 2 seconds

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If you put your arms out like an aeroplane then people will think you’re flying around instead of staggering. — My father while drunk and staggering around holding his arms out like a plane. (via clandestinepopularity)
easilyhumored:

it’s so nice that my cousin is offering 2 gourmet dishes as well as 3 different types of people for dinner at her wedding

easilyhumored:

it’s so nice that my cousin is offering 2 gourmet dishes as well as 3 different types of people for dinner at her wedding

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afrosinspace:

kaddy-kablamo:

What is her ponytail holding on to???!!!!??

Faith.

afrosinspace:

kaddy-kablamo:

What is her ponytail holding on to???!!!!??

Faith.

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theclearlydope:

Shit, Kanye. Get it together.
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theclearlydope:

Shit, Kanye. Get it together.

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